I am using winxp pro and msoffice 2003

I have created a user form in my workbook, but I don't have a clue how
to show the form.

When I click on the desktop icon for the workbook, I would like it to
open and show me the form so the user can use it. I don't know where to
put the code to show the form on open, or how to code it. I know coding
will be something simple like maybe frmName.Show - but I cannot figure
out or find the answer where to put the code so I see my form when I
open the dang workbook.

I have been googleing excel forms, but have yet to come up with a
definitive site on how to create and show and code behind the form I
created. Can do this in Access, and I'm afraid my Access knowledge is
making this all the tougher for me (certainly is creating a degree of
frustration).

If you know of a site that would take me from 'turn on the computer' to
'final form project' for the raw beginner, I sure would be grateful if
you would point me to it. Or perhaps there is a book out there that
would give some time to forms. Using MSOffice 2003 Inside Out right now
but not finding what I need in the index, and reading 1000 pages of
Excel is not in my cards!! The only index listing is 'Form Command' and
that is 3 pages long and is doing me no good as far as creating a user
form.

Any help/info you can give me, I thank you muchly
Joanne